Season 4,

episode 104 / The Pursuer

February 12, 2020
episode 104/ SEASON 4
February 12, 2020

The Pursuer


Show Notes


Iona is a pursuer and Pam is married to one, so there is plenty of fodder to go around!

Learn what the pursuer really needs, feels and longs for and how their stance can sabotage themselves and their partner. The more I pursue, the more you withdraw!

Learn how to break out of this conflict, voice what you need and get what you need from your partner.


Resources Mentioned in Podcasts

Eaker Wiel, B. (not stated). Are you a pursuer? (questionnaire).


Gottman, J. (1999). The seven principles for making marriage work.
New York, NY: Random House Inc..


Horsmon, S. (March 2017). How to avoid the pursuer-distancer pattern in your relationship.


Hung, S. (June 2017). How you (both) feel matters: Emotion focused therapy for couples.


Ogi Potential website (not stated) Emotion focused couples therapy.


Thurman, D. (March 2019). Breaking relational conflict.





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