episode 104/ SEASON 4
February 12, 2020
The Pursuer
Show Notes
Synopsis
Iona is a pursuer and Pam is married to one, so there is plenty of fodder to go around!
Learn what the pursuer really needs, feels and longs for and how their stance can sabotage themselves and their partner. The more I pursue, the more you withdraw!
Learn how to break out of this conflict, voice what you need and get what you need from your partner.
Resources Mentioned in Podcasts
Eaker Wiel, B. (not stated). Are you a pursuer? (questionnaire).
from
https://doctorbonnie.com/archive/ed2go/pursuer-distancer/
Gottman, J. (1999). The seven principles for making marriage work.
New York, NY: Random House Inc..
Horsmon, S. (March 2017). How to avoid the pursuer-distancer pattern in your relationship.
from
https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-avoid-the-pursuer-distancer-pattern-in-your-relationship/
Hung, S. (June 2017). How you (both) feel matters: Emotion focused therapy for couples.
from
https://www.shiftcollab.com/blog/negativepatternsinrelationships
Ogi Potential website (not stated) Emotion focused couples therapy.
from
https://ogipotential.com.au/emotion-focused-couples-therapy-eft/
Thurman, D. (March 2019). Breaking relational conflict.
from
https://theeftclinic.com/eftblog/2019/3/6/breaking-relational-conflict
